Hey everyone! Today I want to talk about something pretty special—the friendships that can come through getting connected at the BSU.
See, college life is busy. And lonely too sometimes. Heavy course loads, clubs, work schedules—it’s easy to feel isolated even when constantly surrounded by people. Like no one knows your story.
But I believe Christian community can be the remedy to shallow relationships or surface-level encounters. The connections nurtured here have profoundly impacted my college experience, becoming a lifeline of support.
I asked a few other BSU students to share their stories too about discovering meaningful friendships that feel like family. Here’s what they had to say:
Kayla’s Story
“Honestly, if it weren’t for the deep roots I put down at the BSU, I definitely would have transferred after my first year. I just felt so lost and unsure of where I fit in. Attending Monday night gatherings felt intimidating at first. But then a few girls invited me to sit with them, got my number, and asked me to join their small group. I finally found ‘my people’—a safe space to share struggles and feel known. It gave me community and reason to stay at school.”
Andres’ Story
“Making friends after moving from Mexico initially proved tricky with the language and cultural barrier. The BSU became my home away from home. I went from quiet commuter student to finding a family. My campus big bro Pedro helped me with rides, introduced me to people, and answered a million questions about American life! We joke, play ball, and eat together often. I finally feel accepted.”
Jenna’s Story
“Honestly, the best decision I made freshman year was getting connected to the BSU through my roommate. I met amazing gals in my small group who made me feel comfortable right away. We explored faith together, prayed about big decisions, danced at formal events, cried through drama with guys—you name it! I gained a support system and sisters. Even after graduating, we still meet up and talk for hours picking up right where we left off.”
There’s room in this family for you too!
If you’re looking for authentic community and spiritual friendships, I encourage you to jump in. Ask God to lead you to your people and just start showing up. Lean into the growth He has for you. You won’t regret it 🙂
Let me know how I can help you find ways to get connected! Looking forward to making friends with y’all this semester!
